Well, I mean everyone is different and finds happiness in their own way. Some people might find pleasure in sexual activities like you do, but there are also plenty of others who get fulfillment from things like traveling, learning new skills, or helping others. It's all about what makes each person feel alive and connected to the world around them. And just because that was your experience with your girlfriend doesn't mean it has to be the same for everyone else.

I'm not trying to be confusing. I'm just saying that there are many different ways to find happiness and fulfillment in life. You don't have to limit yourself to only one thing, like sex with your ex-girlfriend, for example. There's a big world out there full of experiences waiting for you to explore them. Maybe it's time for you to step outside this room and see what else is available.